Having group sex is a pretty common sexual fantasy. The idea of being intimate with multiple partners at once in a mass of raw sexuality and passion is certainly appealing. But when it comes to actually having group sex, there's a lot to keep in mind, and if you're new to the scene it can be overwhelming to get started. To help, the experts at Juicebox Love + Sex, a personal guide for all things sex, dating, and relationships; have some tips for making the most out of your group sex experience.
Types of Group Sex
Threesomes
Threesomes are a good introduction for couples who want to explore an open relationship and group sex. Some couples are open to bringing a third partner into the bedroom for a single encounter or on a more regular basis. In heterosexual relationships, the third tends to be another woman, since some straight men are uncomfortable with the idea of sleeping with a man. If a straight woman is interested in exploring sex with another man and her husband isn’t, then swinging may be a better option.
Swinging
Popularized in the 1960's, swinging typically involves two couples swapping partners at the same time. This is usually done at the same location and could even occur in the same room. Swinging is a great option for couples who want to have sex with other people in a clearly defined situation.
Play Parties
A play party is an occasion where people engage in sex openly. People typically picture a giant orgy, but remember that it's a party first! There will be people socializing, that may not be engaging in sexual activities -- and that's totally okay! Play parties are about experiencing sex in front of other people, which requires both voyeurs and exhibitionists. Every play party is different, so you will want to check with the host about rules and etiquette. Keep in mind, there is typically a vetting process where you need to apply. If you are a single man, it’s more difficult to join a threesome or play party. Single men typically need to bring a woman (it could just be a friend). Play parties are easier to find for people near a major city like New York and San Francisco or you could consider throwing your own. For a successful play party, the host needs to understand how to create a safe, open, and inclusive environment. For this reason, women-led and queer-led parties are the gold standard.
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